Rules for Life

Have you ever had an epiphany? One of those “a-ha” moments where something just clicks for you? Maybe it’s something you’ve been struggling with for a long time, or maybe it was a piece of advice you learned from a friend. Whatever the source of our insight, it’s these moments that bring us to a deeper understanding of our world. The better understanding we have of life, the more we live in the truth.

Below are the most powerful lessons:

Often those who aren’t the easiest to love are the ones who need it the most.

Seeing children play can make even the bluest day brighter.

Money is not the root of all evil, fear is.

The secret to happiness is the acceptance of yourself.

Happiness is not based on external status, it is an internal state.

Money can’t make me happy, but self-sufficiency gives me the freedom to share myself creatively, without worrying about how I’m going to pay the bills.

Every man has a right to choose his own destiny.

The path is the way. You define your own path.
Follow your gut, you’ll thank yourself later.

Remember what your mother taught you, it came from the most sacred place of love that exists.

Never let an argument last, never hold a grudge, it will make your heart heavy.

Forgive those that have yet to do you wrong, and you won’t have to worry about it should the time come.

Be grateful for this moment, it is all there is.

The source of most of your frustrations and anxiety are the result of living in the future, or the past.

Spend time alone with yourself every day.

Always go with yourself, never against yourself.

You have to be your own best friend.

If you don’t like what someone else says to you, you can walk away. But if you don’t like what you say to yourself, you can’t walk away. Therefore, if you’re going to be with yourself all the time, you might as well be nice to yourself.

The truth shall indeed set you free.

Lies only exist if we believe in them.

Even the most fundamental beliefs about reality are not true in themselves. Our thinking makes them true in our experience.

Your thoughts create reality.

The biggest lie is the lie of your imperfection.

Being kind is more important than being right.

Your heart is your best compass.

Cherish those that you love, you never know if you’ll see them again.

Your beliefs are a filter for your reality.

Love is the supreme expression of life, it is the essence and ground of all creation.

7 Rules For Life

1) Make peace with your past So it wont disturb your Present

2) What other people think of you is none of your business

3) Time HEALS almost everything. Give TIME

4) No One is In charge Of Your Happiness, Except You.

5) Don't compare your Life To Others & Don't Judge them , You Have No IDEA What their Journey is all about

6) STOP Thinking too much, Its all right not to know the answers.They will come to you when least expected.

7) SMILE. You don't own all the problems in the WORLD.

Actionable Learning

1:- If the Road is Beautiful then, Worry About the  Destination, But if the Destination is Beautiful, Then Don't Worry About The Road!

2:- We Always Feel that GOD Never comes on Time when We Call Him...But the Truth is ~ "He is Always on Time" But "We are Always in Hurry!

3:- Trust the One Who can See, These Three Things in You ~Sorrow Behind Your SMILE, Love Behind Your ANGER & Reason Behind Your SILENCE!

4:- Beautiful things Are not Always Good ~ But Good  things are Always Beautiful!

5:- Never Miss First  Opportunity,  because the Second Opportunity Will be Much More Difficult than First!

6:- Dreams Aren't those That You Have when You are  Asleep, Dreams are Those that Don't Let You Sleep till They are Fulfilled!

7:- It’s Purity of Heart that Matters, Not the External Appearance. Because Helping Hands are Always, Better than Praying Lips.

8:- No one could actually say that deserve  better. Because the best thing that you deserve, will always be your choice.

9:- When your Time is Good, Your Mistakes are taken As a Joke! But When Your Time is Bad, Even your Jokes are Noticed as Mistakes!

10:- We Judge Ourselves By what We Feel we're Capable of Doing, While Others Judge us By what We have Already Done!

11:- If you damage the character of another, you damage your own.

12:- LAUGH like You have Never Cried, PLAY like You have Never Lost, LOVE like You have Never Hurt And LIVE like There is No Tomorrow!

13:- Two Things that Define SUCCESS In LIFE: - The Way You Manage when You Have Nothing & Way You Behave when You Have Everything!

14:- Don't concentrate on what Someone Else can Do that you Can not , Concentrate on What You can Do That Others Cannot.

15:- Never be too proud of who You are & What Position you Hold Because After a Game of Chess The King & The Pawns are tossed Into The Same Box.

Gods Plans are Wonderful

A very poor woman called a Christian radio station asking for help.
A bad, evil man who was listening to this radio program decided to make something out of it.
He got her address, called his secretary and ordered her to buy food and take to the woman with the following instruction.,-
"when the woman asks who sent the food, tell her that its from the devil.''

When she arrived, the woman was so happy and she started putting the food inside.
The Secretary asked her, ''don't you want to know who sent the food''??
The woman answered. ''NO , it doesn't matter, because when GOD orders, even the devil obeys."

* READ this CAREFULLY*

You are a divine project, so shall God accomplish whatever that concerns you.
That thing in your life that seems impossible, shall be possible.
God will take you to a greater height, God is got perfect plans in your life because God Loves you.

The Mother, the daughter and the Map

A Mother was reading a magazine and her cute little daughter every now and then distracted her.

To keep her busy, she tore one page on which was printed the map of the world.
She tore it into pieces and asked her to go to her room and put them together to make the map again.

She was sure her daughter would take a lot more time and probably whole of day to get it done. But the little one came back within minutes with perfect map.

When she asked how she could do it so quickly, she said,
"Oh Mom, there is a man's face on the other side of the paper. I made the face perfect to get the map right." she ran outside to play leaving the mother surprised.

Moral : Perhaps there is always the other side to whatever you experience in this world.

This story indirectly teaches a lesson.That is:
Whenever we come across a challenge or a puzzling situation, Look at the other side...
&
Will be surprised to see an easy way to tackle the problem or an acute difficulty.

The Dog in the Well

In old times, there was a village having only one well for drinking water. One day a dog fell down in the well and died. The water became filthy and undrinkable.  The worried villagers went to the old wise man for advice. They were told to take 100 buckets of water from the well so that clean water come to the surface of the well. The villagers took 100 buckets but water status was same. They went to the wise man again. He suggested to take another 100 buckets. The villagers did the same but to no avail. They villagers tried third time to take another 100 buckets as per the advice from the wise man but water was still impure. The wise said, How come the whole well is polluted even removing this much considerable amount of water. Did you remove the dog body prior to taking 300 buckets of water? The villagers said, "no sir, you only advised us to take water out, not the dog body!!!"

Several times in life we try to resolve our problems without considering the root cause of the problems. We believe that we are resolving the problem whereas in actual we are working on the side effects of problem not the problem itself. We don't see the big picture to understand the root of the issue.  We take advice from our well wishers but do not use our brain to think logically to analyze the advice and then decide, instead, we start acting blindly on the solutions suggested by others.

The Thirst (Story with a Lesson)

There is a legend of a man who was lost in the desert, dying of thirst. He stumbled on until he came to an abandoned house. Outside the dilapidated, windowless, weather–beaten, deserted shack was a pump. He stumbled forward and began pumping furiously, but no water came from the well. Then he noticed a small jug with a cork at the top and a note written on the side: "You have to prime the pump with water, my friend. P.S. And fill the jug again before you leave." He pulled out a cork and saw that the jug was full of water.

Should he pour it down the pump? What if it didn’t work? All of the water would be gone. If he drank the water from the jug, he could be sure he would not die of thirst. But to pour it down the rusty pump on the flimsy instruction written on the outside of the jug?

Something from inside told him to follow the advice and choose the risky decision. He proceeded to pour the whole jug of water down the rusty old pump and furiously pumped up and down. Sure enough, the water gushed out! He had all he needed to drink. He filled the jug again, corked it and added his own words beneath the instructions on the jug: "Believe me, it really works. You have to give it all away before you can get anything back."

That's why Giving is important..!!!